1. I met the man of my dreams. As cheesy as that may sound, it is completely true. I met someone who accepts all parts of me fully and loves me even when I am flawed or broken. He has helped me through some extremely difficult times and he does so with strength and love. He provides comfort and love when I need it most. Not only all of that, but he as taught me what it means to truly love someone with charity and forgiveness. He exceeds all descriptions and dreams I ever had in the man I would marry. (Which brings us to my next point)
2. I got engaged to my very best friend and love! As we enter this new year, I can hardly contain my excitement that we will be married this year. I can't imagine going on this adventure with anyone else. I am a very lucky girl.
3. I graduated from SLCC with an associates of English
4. I moved 3.5 hours away for school. It is hard being away, but I am so grateful for this opportunity. Not only have I received incredible education, but I have also learned to be independent and strong on my own.
5. I lost a beautiful friend and sister. Shelbey was on dance company with me and I loved her dearly. She was an incredibly loyal friend who could always make you laugh. I miss her terribly and think of her beatiful spirit often. Shelbey has taught me to love everyone around you fully because there may come a day where they won't be there anymore. She also taught me to love others and embrace all the good and bad within them. I have never met someone with the capacity to love and see the good in everyone quite like she did. I will never forget the beautiful impact she had on me and my life. Love you, Shelbs.
6. I spent my last Christmas at home. Although this saddens me to think I'll probably never wake up with my siblings on christmas morning, I am so excited for the next chapter in my life.
7. From watching the divorce of my parents, I was able to realize exactly what I wanted my marriage to be like and what I did not want. Although many of the experiences that led to these realizations are much too personal to share, they have made a huge impact on my choices and decisions.
8. I gained much for confidence and self esteem. I leaned to value my spirit and body. I also lost about 30 lbs and became much more healthy and efficient. I learned the value of exercise and healthy eating,
9. My patience was tested as I worked for a nanny this summer. I learned how hard motherhood is and I also learned unconditional love and care. I was able to get a grip on my temper and frustration and channel it into ways of getting after them that were much more loving and considerate. Although we had many rough days, I wouldn't change that experience for anything.
10. I passed my chemistry class with a a B! I know, it seems silly but I learned a lot from it- and not about chemistry. I became very aware that even when things are difficult for me or completely out of my comfort zone, I able to face them head on if I work hard and put in sufficient effort. Chemistry made me study a lot because it is just not a subject that comes naturally for me like English does. I became very aware that I am able to do hard things.
This year turned out to be much more than I could ever imagine and I know 2014 has even more in store for me. I am so excited for this new chapter and also to start my new adventure in life. I will be in my last year of school and I will be moving to a new place. I will also be getting new jobs and working while in school. As hectic as this all sounds, I can hardly wait because I will have my best friend by my side and I will then share his last name (:
I wish all of you the best in this new year and I hope that you will be blessed and inspired to be better and do good.
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